The Danger of Saying, “I Understand” - 5 steps that lead toward understanding

The Danger of Saying, “I Understand” - 5 steps that lead toward understanding

Managing conflict is not about finding ways to agree with each other but rather reaching an understanding together. This is MUCH MORE than saying, “I understand.” Because those two words hold the most ambiguous meaning.

These 5 steps can help us see understanding as something we’re working toward and not a full on destination that stops abruptly.

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What to do when empathy and boundaries collide

What to do when empathy and boundaries collide

Empathy is meant to interrupt fears, to interpret experiences internally and to be felt deeply. How can we can elicit empathy WHILE maintaining healthy boundaries in our relationship with others and ourselves?

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what to say when you can’t say anything right - Holiday Edition

what to say when you can’t say anything right - Holiday Edition

Every December, we are surrounded by a ridiculous amount of pressure and expectation. All the presumption of being MERRY with its emphasis on perfection and image can make this season a particularly dark one in relationships. Try using these few communication tips to improve your connection with your partner during the holidays.

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